For real I think a lot of sad lonely people out there enjoy that they hold this power in front of the line. “I’ve waited my turn and now I’m really going to savor it. I have the power to inconvenience people and if I’m not wielding that power I am weak. And therefore I will soak in this power and attention because I don’t really have anything else going for me.” It’s not entirely their fault because hey the world is a dark place- but it’s so obnoxious.